i actually put this truth in the court documents: even if i were to 
walk out of the court room with the full settlement (which has now 
inched up to 4679.46), we'd still have to find a mediation process, 
afterwards, or i'm just going to take them to court every month.
i even offered to give some of it to charity. it's really not the point. 
that
 number can keep growing. the bigger it gets, the larger a fraction of 
it gets, too. it can eventually get to a point where i shouldn't expect 
to see it, even if i win it. but, that's fine, because it's not the 
actual answer to anything.
the preferred answer was an 
epiphany. i was hoping i could help. sure, it's still possible. right 
now, the right answer is a legal mentor to get them to follow common 
sense legal principles - to tell them when they're fucking up and tell 
them not to.
that is infinitely more valuable to me than an unending court battle that i keep winning.