i stopped for karaoke last night (i didn't sing on stage, but helped out a little from my seat. doors. pearl jam.) and got hit on a little at the bar....

i'm used to this. i don't get offended.

"so, i don't know....were you born a girl?"
"i was born XY"
"wow. so you have both genders?"

biology. you got it or you don't, i guess.

at one point, somebody guessed that i was a 24 year-old genetic female, and i had every right to feel complimented.

my actual age is nearly 36.