From: the surviving uncle’s email address
To: "Jessica Murray" <dfhldgdhdlhfdla@gmail.com>
Well,
it sounds to me like you have a pretty good handle on the situation,
all of them actually. People rarely deal with the real issues and if
they do, it's usually a long time coming. Nobody expected your dad to go
as quickly as he did and as you well know it's not something that could
have been predicted with any kind of accuracy. You had a chance to say
goodbye and that's what counts. Often, we don't get that opportunity.
there
were frequent occasions when my dad talked about leaving her. he always
said he couldn't leave her because she'd self-destruct into a rage and
possibly even harm herself. i'm a little worried she's in the process of
doing this, but i don't know a way i can help and i'm even worried that
if i try it'll make things worse.
We talked about
this often. He did his part and though he may have hoped you would have
some sort of relationship with her, he didn't really expect it would
happen as he was not delusional. I wouldn't send anything to ferris as
it really no longer concerns you in any way. Let her family worry about
her. Your dad wanted you to take care of yourself and for you to be
happy. So do that. Do it for you and do it for him.
We
(your dad's family) do very much consider you family, so keep in touch
and let us know where you are and how we can reach you. If there is
anything we can help with, let us know.
