From: the surviving uncle’s email address
To: "Jessica Murray" <dfhldgdhdlhfdla@gmail.com>
J,
people do hurtful things. Sometimes all you can do is try be be a
better person than the ones hurting you. You are aware of what is going
on and I believe that the only stuff you will get is the stuff you have
retrieved on your own. As much as it hurts, at least you have what you
have gotten back. The only cd's I got were given to me by your dad and
they were 10 or 11 cd's that were the dead uncle’s. You are not in a
good bargaining position and need to play what cards you do have, well.
I'm
not 100% certain, but I believe strongly that a box of your dad's
personal effects have been put aside for you with your things. I would
not even ask about them. All you would be doing is saying, "here is
another way to hurt me". I would drop the cd issue, there is nothing you
or anyone else can do about it. There is not much to figure out, I
think what is going on is pretty clear.
Speaking from
personal experience, what I would do (and what your dad would tell you)
is do nothing. Don't inquire about anything else. Just get your things
as soon as possible and with as little fanfare as possible. Sometimes
taking the high road brings surprising results. You are in a very tough
spot, try to not let your feelings make it worse.
If
you are not in a position to get your things to Windsor right now, maybe
the best thing would be to hire a small local mover for an hour or two
and put your stuff in a storage locker for now. At least you would be
able to see what was given to you and you would know that it is safe.
Considering what is going on, I think that's your best bet. If you don't feel you can trust someone or a situation, then don’t.
